How did you find your style?

Hi, 23f here.

I have been going through a pretty rough phase at the minute clothing wise and my mental health is taking a bit of a hit because of it.

I feel ugly in almost everything I own and have no idea how to style myself at this point. I’ve always loved fashion and styling but anytime I put together an outfit, I feel that it either doesn’t suit me or makes me look about 20 pounds heavier.

I tend to wear a lot of jumpers, leggings, either baggy jeans and a tight top or vice versa and cardigans.

So I was just wondering how did everyone go about finding their style/how did you discover it?

Also, if anyone has any recommendations for me:

I am 9stone, 5”3, tan skin, dark brown hair, hazel eyes (more green some days, others more brown. It switches up). I have diabetes and inject on my stomach, so I have two lumps on either side of my belly button that stick out more than the rest of my stomach.

Thank you!