Tubing Mascara Issues

but I genuinely think tubing mascara is making my lashes fall out. I’ve tried many (thrive, essence, hourglass, Milani, tarte) I’m very gentle with how I take it off. I take some warm water and hold for a little before gently sliding down and then the mascara is removed. But I’ve noticed my lashes are very thin now and I’m losing quite a lot ever since starting tubing mascara which makes no sense because I thought tubing mascara was healthier for your lashes? Any input? Just trying to figure out if this is a uncommon experience 😅