Post hair removal Skin care advice (male)

hello, I need advice, I have a ingrown hair issue,

shaving, nair, veet, waxing, does not matter, get very angry ingrown hairs at first and over time the hairs will literally just grow visibly underneath the layer of skin, it might be foliculitus, it might be something else, IDK, but I'm looking for post hair removal skin help.

I'm blonde of you say laser I'm ignoring you, not everyone gets to enjoy laser.

currently I shower nightly and use a men's body wash and am considering changing products so any advice is welcome