Every blush is pink on me any recommendations?

For context, I’ve been told that I’m cool toned which I do not believe for one second. Pink does not suit me whatsoever, it washes me out, clashes with my black hair and makes me look like one of those porcelain dolls with the rosy cheeks and that’s just not the look I personally want. I’ve found more neutral/warmer tones suit me but it is genuinely impossible to find a blush that doesn’t go pink when I blend it or oxidise into pink. I’ve tried lipsticks, high end, drugstore and even the darkest shades of lip/cheek tint but they all blend into pink. I know blush is typically pink and it may be a bit of a stretch to ask but I’m just curious as to what the neutral/warmer toned girlies are using !! Thank you !! >v<